So you all have met THOT (That hoe over there) meet her mother. The apple does not fall far from the tree. via /r/JUSTNOMIL

I have mentioned my GMIL a few times, but as time goes on she gets worse. She might as well be my MIL as well, because she basically raised my SO and BIL1. She is crazy, but she is also the biggest reason SO has yet to set into motion going NC with THOT.

While at school SO Never talks to his mom. GMIL calls every few days, normally to bitch about one family member or another, or how I recently did THOT wrong. Ugh. GMIL has not always hated me, she has only disliked me since neice was born. SIL and BIL were not exclusively dating when neice was concieved.. so there was some question to paternity by SO, GFIL, and me. GMIL was very offended by SO thinking otherwise… and blamed me for putting it in his head. Apparently SIL had told GMIL that SO had been asking about SIL sleeping with someone else that we were working with. Yea, I was the one who had cooled SIL down after she flipped on SO. So many people told SO, and that's why he started asking, plus she was dating his brother. He had every right to be concerned.

THOT and GMIL refused to believe any of it, because there was finally a baaaaby that they both so desperately wanted, and it was a girl. She was perfect, everything they wanted.

So here is the list of why GMIL hates me, and THOT is very much so involved.

• GMIL was saying a payer before our Christmas eve celebrations, she was saying how thankful she was that we all found god. THOT decided this was the right time to tell her mother that I do not believe in god. She wouldn't even look at me. She has since tried to convert me constantly, throw god into everything, bought me a bible, and brought me pamphlets from her church. I had a bible, read it several times. Still not religious. She used this as serious ammo to make SO break up with me. SO isn't really religious either. That almost killed them. (GMIL AND THOT)

• I believe that men and women sre equals. GMIL believes that I need to take care of my SO's every whim. I should bring him his plate, refill his drink, and clean up after him, just like SIL. I thought she was kidding an laughed. She started yelling at me. SO told her we are equals, and take care of each other.

• Every time she sees me I am drinking alcohol. Well this is probably true since SO turned 21. I always drink when I am going to be around THOT. GMIL comes to THOT's house all the time. SO's family is filled with recovering alcoholics. THOT, UIL, GMIL, and GFIL, were all alcoholics. So now GMIL reguards it as a sin to drink alcohol. Well that is her choice not mine, and I never drink at her house. She believes I am corrupting my SO with alcohol and forcing him to have sex with me. Well he drinks occasionally, with that family history, he does not like to over do it. As for forcing him to have sex with me, I can guarantee hat is not the case. I just don't even understand where that came from.

• GMIL hates that I can't cook. Well I can cook, she just won't try it. I made spinach and artichoke dip for a cook out, and people were literally licking the bowl clean. She refused to try it and keeps insisting I can't cook and will be a bad wife. She lost THOT here, she loved that dip, and the food I cooked at the obx. At the obx, each adult couple had to make a meal. THOT and GMIL did not think anyone was going to like my meal, and made a back up meal. I was VERY offended, as was SO. SO can't cook and didn't really help, which is fine, but the fact that they had no faith in me pissed him off. UIL was not happy with their behavior either, and made a point to try my food. Everyone loved it, and no one ate the back up meal. My meal was everyone's favorite. I don't cook often, because I live with my parents and they always insist on me not bringing anything. THOT has changed her tune on my food, and will try anything I make. On the other hand, no one likes SIL's food. She uses too many spices and makes them all sick. So I like SIL's food, as does SO, but no one of consequence likes it. (Eye-roll) They have made her cry about it before.

• One time GMIL came to THOT's house while SO and I were sitting on the couch watching tv, and he was folding his laundry. GMIL asked why I was not folding his laundry. THOT responded that I am not his goddamn maid. My jaw hit the floor. Did THOT just defend me? YUP. THOT and SFIL share choresn whomever needs the laundry done, does it, SFIL does it more often. THOT and GMIL do not get along often, and has many of the same complaints of THOT as she does me. (Gross)

• My parents help SO more than his own family. His car needed major repairs while we were up at school last year, he did not have enough money to fix it, and pay rent. SO talked to his familyn and they couldn't help him. I talked to my family, and my parents paid for the repair. When we went home, GMIL asked how SO got his car fixed. She was pissed that he wasn't relying on his own family. At this point in time GMIL owed SO more than $800. Unlike THOT she did eventually pay him back. She turned to me and told me to stop asking my parents to help him. I told her that my parents love him like a son, and they helped him because no one else could be bothered. I'm surprised he CBF did not swallow up her whole face.

• I take SO away on holidays. his family tries to claim every holiday, except halloween, the devil's holiday. Well that doesn't fly with me. BIL1 does not attend every holiday. Thanksgiving is the biggest one. Mostly because their numbers are smalln and the family is very divided on that holiday. I have spoken much previously on this holiday. My parents are done with SO and I missing holidays with them, to spend holidays with people that can't be bother any other day with SO's needs. my parents employ him, feed him, and clothe him. All he does is sleep at THOT's house. THOT throws a tantrum about it every now and again, then we spend an evening there, or he has to go on a date with her. (Ew) Normally she aims for my anniversary or birthday. Which hasn't been successful. GMIL just yells at me every time I see her about how SO was such a kind, caring, godly boy before I poisoned him, and tore him away from his family. Every. God. Damn. Time. It's gotten to the point that we avoid each and THOT and SIL act as my buffer. You know its bad when even THOT is on my side.

So why is THOT on my side? THOT hates her mom. Her mom is overbearing. SFIL can't stand her, SIL and BIL are fed up. UIL and AIL don't spend much time with her either. BIL2 and BIL3 hate her too. Not a pretty picture huh? Literally everyone, cannot stand her, because she is so judgemental of everyone. Neice replaced SO as the golden goose when she was born. She does the whole my baaaaby thing with her great granddaughter. On the plus side, unlike THOT, she keep neice on her schedule, and follows SIL and BIL's rules. Something she did not do with THOT concerning her children.

GMIL, from what I hear, was an inattentive mother. Always drunk, and ger husband beat on her. After the divorce, they both sobered up. GFIL has never been violent since, and still enjoys beer. GMIL found god. So THOT got pregnant as a teenager. Her dad took her in, and her mother raised her children. Now THOT wants to raise neice, and is super jealous her mom watches neice everyday while SIL and BIL work.

Everyone's problem with GMIL is that she comes and goes as she pleases. She constantly shows up uninvited, and won't leave. Just dropping in isn't a big deal every once in awhile, but once a day is ridiculous. God forbid SO not see her for a week, then he gets a long phone call about being with faaaamily, and how I prevent that.

It's been over 5 years now. Can we all just accept the fact that I am here to stay? THOT, GMIL, are you just ready accept the fact that SO loves me, and I make him happy. You all pretend to care about his happiness, it is now time to accept it.

Moral of the story. THOT is just her mother, but her mother constantly compares me to THOT. She does not think I will be a good wife because I do not cool and clean for my SO, and I am not godly.

Oh this one time GMIL told SO to hit me for talking back to him. I was just joking around with him. THOT asked her if she was on crack. Goddamn, seriously, THOT is even on my side with her.